Hey, gidday mates! I don’t know about you, but I go through these phases of buying multiples of certain basic pieces and wearing a variation on the same outfit, days/weeks/months in a row. Right now that includes canvas pants, white T-shirts and suede sneakers (all of which can we acquired for well under $100). That said, I love me a big ticket item, and my latest acquisition is from Demna Gvasalia at Balenciaga. His take on the black denim jacket has elongated shoulders and a cropped, tapered waist, which affords the wearer something of an inverted V superhero silhouette. Who needs the gym??? No doubt it’ll be on a constant rotation in the upcoming months, alongside this Loewe T-shirt (which looked just as good on Jenny as it did on me).Click to Continue!
Anon asks: Hey Isaac, I’ve been seeing this guy for six months and even though I’ve tried to convince myself otherwise, I’m pretty sure that we’re not entirely compatible. We get along fine and we always do really fun stuff together but there’s just something missing and we seem to be on different wavelengths. I feel like I’m just using him to explore and do fun stuff cause I met him when I moved to a new city. Should I break up with him if I don’t feel like it’s a love prospect? I’m scared of being alone.
Hey, gidday mate. In a word, yes.Click to Continue!
Anon asks: Hi Isaac, my boyfriend and I have been dating for nine months. We’ve been getting into a lot of arguments recently over what should be small things. Usually I do something small he disagrees with and then he lashes out at me. I don’t mean to upset him I just don’t know what he wants. We had a long discussion about it and came to the conclusion that we need to communicate better. Honestly, it’s so exhausting it came to the point where I needed a weekend to myself and he got mad about that. I asked him what to do now and he said to not make him upset, but it’s hard when there’s no way of knowing what that is. I said he should try to not let his emotions cloud his judgment. When he gets upset he gets very very aggressive. He said that’s hard because his ability to control his emotions is low. Seems like he can’t have productive conversations about disagreements without aggression. Is this a fatal flaw?
Hey, gidday mate! Oy vey you’re in a tough spot.Click to Continue!
Anon asks: Hey Isaac! I met this guy seven months ago, we started talking every day and were clearly interested in each other. A month in he said he was very attracted to me, but I asked him if he had a girlfriend, he said yes, so I told him it should just be platonic. We were still clearly interested and talking all the time but he didn’t mention the attraction again until two weeks ago. We hung out, he said he and his girlfriend were on a break, and we hooked up. Now he’s distant — thoughts?
Hey, gidday mate. My thoughts on this are pretty simple. Whenever we get involved with someone who’s in a relationship, we end up getting burned, because it’s very difficult for the excitement of the new to trump history.Click to Continue!
Hey, gidday mates! I’m currently lying on my bed fighting off waves of exhaustion after two huge days watching Lorde, Wu Tang, Flume, Chance The Rapper, and a bunch of others perform at Governors Ball this weekend. So many memories. On the first night the line for the ferry was so long that I ended up walking across the RFK Bridge to the 120-something’th Street with like 5000 teenagers who were blasting Chance and DJ Khaled and Lil Uzi Vert from their iPhones. Almost made me feel young again. ALMOST. I shot these photos with my mate Jeremy Mitchell lastClick to Continue!