Anon asks: Under the influence of some substances, some inappropriate words (along the lines of ‘why didn’t we work out, could anything ever happen again’) were exchanged between me and my ex. The next day I took back everything I said and told him I didn’t mean any of it and that I was happy with my current boyfriend. Now I feel so incredibly guilty, if my current boyfriend knew what went down he would hate me. My ex and my current boyfriend are sort of mates, too. What do I do?
Well the horse has already bolted so there’s not a whole lot of point in trying to close the stable door. Don’t do it again, because technically you’re cheating emotionally on your current boyfriend, but I would suggest you just leave it. Don’t tell your boyfriend, don’t have long-winded conversations about what you said or how guilty you feel with your ex, don’t ask advice from your mutual friends, and do not do it again.Click to Continue!