Anon asks: So I met a guy from a different city a few years ago and we started talking all the time. He told me he liked me but I didn’t want to date long distance. Three years later we’re still talking nearly every day, and now I like him, but I just found out he’s just started dating a girl in his city. I confronted him about it and he admitted he was in a relationship but he didn’t want that to affect our friendship. Should I tell him how I feel or wait to see if they break up? It’s unhealthy for me to talk to him while I like him more than a friend. I also don’t want to hurt his relationship with his girlfriend though! Ugh! Help!
Don’t tell him. It’s not fair to him or his girlfriend if you throw that spanner in the works. If you can’t handle talking to him while he has a girlfriend, then stop talking to him. It’s not his responsibility to keep you healthy, it’s yours.Click to Continue!