Anon asks: Hi Isaac, I’m planning a trip to see my friends in another city but I will have to spend an evening with an ex who I’m not quite ready to see (and he’s under the impression that I’m hung up on him). Should I cancel the trip entirely and avoid the situation or just power on through — after all it’s just small talk.
Hey, gidday mate. I had a remarkably similar situation when I was 21 years old — my sister and I went to see our friends in Toronto, and that group of friends included my ex-girlfriend. I was the instigator of the breakup, but I was very keen to see her, and I’d be lying if I said there wasn’t a have-my-cake-and-eat-it motivation involved.Click to Continue!