Anon asks: Hey Isaac. So I’m friends with a guy who I really like AS A FRIEND, and who has a girlfriend, but he keeps giving not-so-subtle hints that he likes me more than friends, and it feels like he’s testing the waters to see if I’d be into him before leaving his girlfriend or making a real move. It weirds me out and it’s the second time a guy has done this to me. How do I tell him I’m not interested without sounding like a jerk and/or super presumptuous?
Mate! I feel you on this 100%. I have a friend who has to deal with this crap all the time, and she has exactly the same reaction to you — if she says something she’s going to come off arrogant and ridiculous, but if she doesn’t, it’s just going to keep on keepin’ on.Click to Continue!